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Chasing losses

If you’ve lost several hands in a row, you might start to feel like the next play is sure to pay off, right? Wrong. Chasing losses is a vicious cycle that often leads to riskier bets, more and more plays, and dipping into money you don’t want to part with. You think if you can just get one big win, all the pressure will fade away. But it won’t—the chase usually leads to more losses.

Financial Strain

Gambling should never come at the expense of your financial stability. Losing track of spending, borrowing money, or selling things to keep betting are signs things might be getting out of control. If you’re not careful, chasing losses can leave you struggling with debt.

Hiding how much you play

Maybe you’re not truthful about how much you play, or you avoid telling new friends that you gamble, or don’t mention to your partner, friends or parents that you played last night. If any of these sound familiar, something’s off.

Using gambling to combat stress or as an escape

When life feels overwhelming, gambling might seem like a way to distract yourself. But it’s a short-term fix - stress or challenges tend to return once the game is over, especially if you’ve lost.

Feeling anger, regret or anxiety around gambling

If you feel uneasy before playing or regretful afterward, it could be a sign that gambling isn’t bringing you the enjoyment it once did. Emotions like these can lead you to override your game plan. And slight deviations from your plan can have big consequences, leading you to chase losses and feel even more regret, frustration and anger at yourself. 

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While it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of the game, or feel peer pressure to keep playing, there are several things that can help you regain control. Here are some key strategies you need to put into practice before you gamble again.

1. Set a Budget
Decide how much money you’re going to gamble with and stick to it. Once it’s gone, stop playing. Don’t try to win it back. Never borrow money or use money intended for necessities, like rent or food.
2. Set a time limit
Decide how long you’re going to play. It’s too easy to tell yourself, just one more, and see one hand turn into ten.  Set a timer on your phone or watch, and walk away when time is up. 
3. Remind yourself: the house always wins
All forms of gambling favour the house. That’s why chasing your losses simply doesn’t work. No matter how experienced you are, you’re going to lose over time. Gambling is not a way to make money. Play for fun, or not at all.
4. Take breaks
Check in with yourself and take stock of how you’re doing. Grab a bite, exercise, watch something, connect with friends. Time away from gambling will let you reassess where you’re at and how you’re feeling.
5. Be honest with yourself and how you're feeling
Are you nervous or stressed about the idea of gambling? Are you risking money you really can’t afford to lose? Are you unable to stop when you’re down, and don’t want to stop if you’re ahead? Get real about how you’re feeling, and if you answered “yes” to any of these examples, consider seeking support. 

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  • Speak with a GameSense Advisor by calling 1-866-815-0222 or using the live chat function on GameSense.com. GameSense Advisors are trained to help you make informed decisions about gambling, set time and money limits, and connect you to additional support if you would like.
  • Call the Gambling Support BC Line at 1-888-795-6111. It’s available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, with free information and resources to support informed choices and healthy behaviour related to gambling.

Resources for friends or family

If you think a close friend or family member is having trouble controlling their gambling, there are ways you can help. Visit our Resources for Families page to find out more.